Most educators will have their students for one year.  Occasionally an elementary teacher will be repositioned and have the opportunity to work with the same kids a second time.  Even high school teachers may have kids sign up for more than one of their classes.  But if you are a band director….well, you see them for marching band, concert band, wind ensemble, jazz ensemble, theory class, percussion ensemble, in-door drum line and color guard.  You see them during the school day, before the school day, after the school day, on the weekends, during the summer, and even during holiday breaks.

Let’s face it.  If you are a band director these are not students….this is family! And at the end of each school year, it is difficult to let the seniors go.  Some you will never see, or hear from, again.  Others will occasionally keep in touch through social media or a brief visit when they are home.  A rare few will make it a point to stay connected long after they have graduated.  I cherish the moments when I hear from or see former students.  There is something terribly rewarding about walking into a place and having a former student you haven’t seen in years, walk up to you, offer you a firm handshake, look you in the eye, and ask “How are you Sir?”  I would like to think I earned that respect.

Today, no every day, I remind you of all the time, energy, knowledge, and love you have invested in your students.  And when it is time for them to leave the band family, know that you have had an immeasurable impact on their lives.  And while you may never hear from many of them again, from time to time, you will receive an email of thanks, a brief visit when they are home, or a firm handshake.  And if you are really lucky, they will look you in the eye and ask “How are you Ma’am (or Sir)?”  Offering you the sign of respect you so richly deserve.  Just sayin’!

Make Today a Magnificent Day!

Gary L Rupert

Culture Strategist/Mentor

II:Leaders Creating:II Leaders

LCL Mentors @ Marching Arts Education