Gary Rupert, Mentor and Coach at LCL Mentors, brings inspiration and encouragement with “Today’s Tasks.” We share one here each week to keep you on track, keep you growing, and keep you moving forward.
Today’s Task – February 4, 2022
Today’s Task – February 1, 2022
Today’s Task – January 25, 2022
Today’s Task – January 25, 2022
Today’s Task – January 20, 2022
Today’s Task – January 17, 2022
Today’s Task – January 13, 2022
Today’s Task- January 10, 2022
Today’s Task – January 3, 2022
Today’s Task – January 3, 2022
Today’s Task – December 6, 2021
Today’s Task – December 6, 2021
Today’s Task – December 2, 2021
Today’s Task – December 2, 2021
Today’s Task – November 26, 2021
Today’s Task – November 24, 2021
Today’s Task – November 18, 2021
NFL Coach Andy Reid has a vision of the type of player he wants on his teams. He is not seduced by a player’s athleticism, if he is a person of bad character. In the NFL’s competitive environment, it takes great discipline to think this way. Reid has been known to pass on a star player with a bad attitude. He understood that when the chips are down, the player with character is always there for you because he will play his heart out for you.
Today’s Task – November 11, 2021
Today’s Task – November 11, 2021
Today’s Task – November 4, 2021
Today’s Task – November 2, 2021
Today’s Task – October 29, 2021
Today’s Task – October 29, 2021
Today’s Task – October 21, 2021
Today’s Task – October 21, 2021
Today’s Task – October 14, 2021
Today’s Task – October 11, 2021
If you follow the NFL at all, you know that the first year coach of the Jacksonville Jaguars is on the hot seat. Following last week’s loss, he chose to not return to Florida with the team, opting instead to remain in Ohio. Later, a video surfaced of a young girl appearing to give him a lap dance at a local club. The response from some of his players was that you can’t stand in front of the team, ask them to meet a moral standard, and then act like that! It is no surprise then, that the word is that he has lost the respect of his team.
Want to be successful as a band director? Be a person of character and integrity. If you are going to set the standard, you must also live the standard….every moment of every day. Will you sometimes slip? Of course you will. And when you do, acknowledge it, own it, and fix it. Not only is that the best approach for you, it models to your students a very important lesson. We measure character and integrity not just when you “walk the walk,” but by how you respond when you “trip.”
Today, no every day, I encourage you to consider the importance of being a person of character and integrity. What we say to our students may be of far less value than what we model in our actions. Do it right, and you might have the experience I recently had presenting a leadership workshop in Pennsylvania. A former student was a participant and he expressed to the group that “Mr R is exactly who he says he is.” I took that as a compliment. Just sayin’!
Make Today a Magnificent Day!
Gary L Rupert
Culture Strategist/Coach
II:Leaders Creating:II Leaders
LCL Mentors @ Marching Arts Education
LCL Today’s Task – October 7, 2021
Make Today a Magnificent Day!
Gary L Rupert
LCL Today’s Task – September 30, 2021
Recently, I spoke with a first year high school administrator regarding her experience to this point. I was not surprised to hear things like, “every experience is a new experience since it is the first time I have done it.” Or, “I am having to learn to deal with the parents in a different way.” Or, “The relationship with the students is different because when they see me, they see someone who is about to discipline them in some way.” However, the most disconcerting thing she shared was “how do I balance my educational beliefs with the need to make my Principal look good?”
We can talk about her first concerns at a later date, but the one I want to address is “making the Principal look good.” I reminded this emerging leader that the job is not to make the Principal look good, but to help the students be successful. Currently, the leadership styles between the first year administrator and the Principal are in conflict, and rather than pursuing a healthy balance between the two, she thinks she must fall into line so that she doesn’t make the Principal look bad. Leadership is not a “one-size-fits-all” proposition. Certainly the goals of the Administrative staff must be in alignment if they want to be successful, but the means by which that occurs MUST allow for diverse styles of leading. After all, the student population is diverse.
Today, no every day, I encourage you to consider how you would respond if you were in a similar position to this young administrator. Would you be willing to give up on your own leadership style (assuming you are being successful) to make your Principal look good? Perhaps, instead, you would speak with your Principal and share that while you are on-board with the overall Administrative mission, you would like the freedom to deliver it in the style that best fits your skill set? I know what I would do. Just sayin’!
Make Today a Magnificent Day!
Gary L Rupert
LCL Today’s Task – September 23, 2021
Recently, I spoke with a first year high school administrator regarding her experience to this point. I was not surprised to hear things like, “every experience is a new experience since it is the first time I have done it.” Or, “I am having to learn to deal with the parents in a different way.” Or, “The relationship with the students is different because when they see me, they see someone who is about to discipline them in some way.” However, the most disconcerting thing she shared was “how do I balance my educational beliefs with the need to make my Principal look good?”
We can talk about her first concerns at a later date, but the one I want to address is “making the Principal look good.” I reminded this emerging leader that the job is not to make the Principal look good, but to help the students be successful. Currently, the leadership styles between the first year administrator and the Principal are in conflict, and rather than pursuing a healthy balance between the two, she thinks she must fall into line so that she doesn’t make the Principal look bad. Leadership is not a “one-size-fits-all” proposition. Certainly the goals of the Administrative staff must be in alignment if they want to be successful, but the means by which that occurs MUST allow for diverse styles of leading. After all, the student population is diverse.
Today, no every day, I encourage you to consider how you would respond if you were in a similar position to this young administrator. Would you be willing to give up on your own leadership style (assuming you are being successful) to make your Principal look good? Perhaps, instead, you would speak with your Principal and share that while you are on-board with the overall Administrative mission, you would like the freedom to deliver it in the style that best fits your skill set? I know what I would do. Just sayin’!
Make Today a Magnificent Day!
Gary L Rupert
LCL Today’s Task – July 22, 2021
When I felt a student was giving me his or her best effort, I had great patience no matter how slow they progressed. But if I felt a student was doing just enough to get by, I had zero tolerance. Interestingly, until I was in college, I was the student who was very good at doing only what I had to do to get by. That all changed however when I met my freshman English teacher. My roommate, who was in the same class, would get papers back with minor errors marked and get an A. I would get papers back with nothing marked on it except a B. When I took both papers in to the teacher and asked him to explain it to me, he simply looked at me and said, “When you deserve an A, you will get it.”
You see, he understood that I was smart enough to do what it took to get an A….AND….that I wasn’t doing my best work. He challenged me that day. He wanted me to understand that just enough is NOT enough. It was an important lesson I needed to learn and fortunately, he was willing to help me learn it. Moving forward, each paper was better than the previous and still, I received a B. This wasn’t an English lesson. This, was a life lesson. One I may have never learned if not for this insightful and caring teacher.
Today, no every day, I encourage you to challenge your students to learn to give their best effort all of the time. They don’t need teachers who pass them just because they showed up and did the work. They need teachers who care about them enough to expect and demand the very best. Oh, I am sure you will get some push back from some kids and perhaps their parents, but you owe it to your students to teach them this valuable lesson. Just sayin’!
Make Today a Magnificent Day!
Gary L Rupert
LCL Today’s Task – September 16, 2021
There is no single version of the truth, one valid opinion, one right view, one correct answer, one right approach, or even one absolute faith. There is always another angle, and that is what makes life interesting. A delicacy to one is disgusting to another; a person of faith to one is an infidel to another. A beautiful painting to one is an enigma to another. The yin and the yang make up the whole.
As a mentor, my job is not to “give you the right answer.” It is to help you think through all the possibilities so that you might come to the best answer for you and your circumstances. It is to help you develop a growth mindset. Everything that occurs can be reframed. A loss can be a gain. A challenge can be an opportunity. We must learn to frame things in a way which will allow us to move forward.
Today, no every day, I encourage you to recognize that life has many truths, allows for many opinions, encourages alternative views, and has room for diverse approaches. It is our ability to look at our situation, recognize its place within the whole, and be open to alternative answers that will allow us to move ever closer to success. Just sayin’!
Make Today a Magnificent Day!
Gary L Rupert
LCL Today’s Task – September 9, 2021
It happens more often than one could ever imagine….and anyone involved will ever admit. First year student is given a class with no existing curriculum, no resources, no guidance, and no support. And in a situation that came my way this evening….no desks in the room! At this point they are nearly 2 weeks into the school year. Are you kidding me?????
So this evening, I received a message from one of my colleagues who happens to be mentoring a young teacher who has found herself in just such a dilemma. The class is a high school general music class (I didn’t even know such a thing still existed) which means the students probably need a Fine Arts credit but they don’t play an instrument and aren’t interested in singing, so they are placed in this class. Well, perhaps class is the wrong term. More like dumping ground. Here is a teacher with no experience developing a curriculum, no experience dealing with the challenges of an urban school, and CLEARLY no support or direction from the school’s administration. I have been asked to meet with my colleague and her mentee to develop a plan and lay the groundwork for both her success, and the success of her students. Something I will be happy to do.
Today, no every day, if you find yourself in a position similar to this young teacher and find that you lack the skills, resources, and support necessary for success, reach out for help. Find a mentor who has the experience and insights to be able to help you get the resources and support you need. Sadly, situations like the one I described above too often result in the teacher either leaving the school or worse, the profession. And this is not the young teacher’s fault. It is the fault of poor leadership at the administrative level. Just sayin’!
Make Today a Magnificent Day!
Gary L Rupert